Interview: a player describes gaming

In a game, says S (a male), I always play a helper: my avatar is usually female and I support the main attacker.
Why?
I want to help people, but in the real world it's tough: sometimes you end up saying or doing the wrong thing.  In the game world, you always know how to help and what to do.  No-one questions your motivations for helping either because everyone has the same goal and different, well-delineated roles to achive it.  In the real world, you can't just offer to help because everyone is suspicious of your motivations.  There's no such thing as team-work in the real world.  That's why I play games.